Don't be afraid to be the lobster amongst the lords and ladies of the court

Big Magic

by Elizabeth Gilbert

I had listened to a few podcasts that Liz did, following up on this book - in the pursuit of encouraging others in their creative journeys.

One of the things that I really appreciated about this book is her common sense advice about how to approach creativity, particularly writing. Underlying her common sense advice is a firm belief in the mystery and magic of the creative process. The juxtaposition of these two things makes it both inspiring and practical.

Not only do we slip away to have a romantic interlude with our creativity, but we make sure not to ask too much of it. We don't ask it to support us financially. This adds to the mystique and adventure of creativity. Amidst the grind of life, their is a horizon that is beckoning, and it is the creative life. The creative life is not devoid of discipline. All successful writers tell you that you have to plant yourself in front of the screen and sometimes it's like pulling teeth. (that's my metaphor.)

Ditch Fear. Walk into the ballroom full of people in medieval costume, whilst you are dressed in a lobster costume because you misunderstood the invitation. And have a wonderful time and be the life of the party.

Done is better than Perfect.  Don't get hung up on perfection. Don't feel that you have to be the next Hemingway or Shakespeare. Work hard. Finish your project and put it out there with lightness and joy. Separate your ego from your soul and be ok with negative feedback. Release your art and move on.

Harness curiosity not just passion. Curiosity is the key to finding your next theme. Pay attention to what is sparking and follow the rabbit trail.

Create a writing group that will support your process. She had one called "the Fat Kids." Inconsequentially, I have a writing group, that thankfully is not called "the Fat kids."

Liz is funny. I laughed out loud several times in this book.

No one is thinking about you. Everyone is hung up on their own inner life and drama. So get over your self consciousness. No one is thinking about you.

Ideas have lives of their own and are looking for collaborators. Be receptive to them, but also let them go if it is not the right time or idea for you.

Don't approach art with too much reverence.

Don't be the jaded artist who drinks too much and destroys themselves and their relationships using art as an excuse or believing that they can't create art apart from dysfunction and excess.

I love Elizabeth Gilbert's spirit. Her style is conversational and she is a connector. She has that Yankee pragmatism and self deprecating humor that appeals to me.

My one complaint about the book is that she blasphemes too much for my sensibilities.

Love you though Liz. Thanks for your words.